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Couples
Therapy

Couples therapy and relationship mediation image focusing on Non-Violent Communication (NVC) and rebuilding connection
Our Approach: Rebuilding the Bridge

Relationships flourish when both partners feel safe, seen, and heard. Our approach moves away from "blame" and focuses on translation and transformation. We help you move from surface-level conflict to the core needs underneath.

The Three Pillars of Our Work
  • The Language of Empathy: We use Non-Violent Communication (NVC) to replace defensive patterns with a clear framework for expressing needs and holding space for one another.

  • Identifying Root Pain: We help you look beneath the "he said/she said" to find the real pain points. Often, a relationship struggle is a signal that each partner needs individual healing.

  • A Neutral Sanctuary: We provide a safe, mediated space where "feeling unheard" ends. We act as translators to ensure that what you say is actually what your partner receives.

What to Expect In Your Session

Healing a relationship is a process, not a quick fix. We recommend a committed course of sessions to move from crisis into connection.

1. The First Session: Breaking the Silence

This initial meeting is often intense but deeply cathartic.

  • The Goal: Both partners get the floor. You will have the opportunity to share thoughts, pain and frustrations that may have been bottled up.

  • The Experience: You will receive immediate, supportive empathy from us. For many couples, this is the first time they truly "hear" each other without the interference of a defensive reflex.

  • The Commitment: We end by establishing a "growth contract," inviting you both to learn new communication skills and commit to the journey ahead. This is the foundation for transformation.

2. Following Sessions: Building the Foundation

Once the initial air is cleared, we move into the "active repair" phase:

  • Skill Building: Practicing empathy and communication in real-time.

  • Deep Reflection: Pinpointing where individual healing (Trauma Therapy) might be needed to support the partnership.

  • Renewing Trust: Systematically rebuilding the blocks of mutual understanding and connection.

Peak States Therapy
Is Couples Therapy For Us?
Illustration of a neutral therapeutic space for partners to practice empathy and resolve relationship conflict using NVC

 

We believe support shouldn't be reserved for a crisis. It is for any couple who wants to:

  • Stop the "Loop": Break repetitive arguments that never reach a resolution or repeating patterns that cause conflict, sadness and resentment.

  • Reconnect: Rediscover the intimacy and friendship that may have faded.

  • Navigate Change: Manage major life transitions with alignment rather than conflict.

  • Heal Together: Support each other through personal healing journeys.

 

Contact Us

WhatsApp Ayla: +44 7719295385

Mobile Andre: +44 7949058860

 

londontherapyonlinenow@gmail.com

andre@andremotuz.com

Cassio Metro, Watford, Hertfordshire

WD18 7BJ

International Institute for Complementary Therapists

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